Thursday, February 03, 2011
Celebration or not..
Wednesday, February 02, 2011
A day to go..
The journey
Tuesday, February 01, 2011
A state of being
Monday, January 31, 2011
Monday Sun!
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Anniversary upgrade!
Clean self ;)
Saturday, January 29, 2011
Clean houseee!
Early morning!
Friday, January 28, 2011
Friiidaay!
Thursday, January 27, 2011
Foggy Thursday..
And then the stupid fire alarm testing started. The test was supposed to be only in the lobby, but started in the house too. I made hubbs call the concierge to check, coz i would have blasted his ears for the morning annoyance. and sure it was a mistake.. as usual!
Now the rest of the day finally starts.. write up the pet of the day and bringing Fido home series on my other blog. Read up posts from my foodie blog roll. a lot of breads and some amazing new dishes. Facebook, twitter, news... youtube videos.. recipes.. exercises..
Wednesday, January 26, 2011
Look at the positives!
Isn't it amazing how everything we humans do whether in the name of entertainment, fun, romanticism or beauty.. always hurts someone else...
So either I shut down my hyper feelers and use ignorance and out of sight out of mind to just see all the happy stuff in the world .... to self.. hello .. probably quite impossible.
Or Use that to motivate myself to make some small efforts to help some of those who are hurt. And I know there are a lot of us out there, constantly striving to make a change, find ways, to reduce the hurt and the pain. That is what is a much bigger motivation. I know of these hurts, because someone found out about them, someone made an effort to get them out there, someone started a small movement to find solutions and alternatives, someone like you and me questioned it.
We, with our big brains, cannot claim ignorance and live in our own bliss. We, will have to reply to our own heart some day. That day, will you be at peace with yourself?
Sunny Wednesday
A big Yay for Mom and Dad taking time to read my blogs.. though most of it is such blabber that they probably think that I am going nuts :D:D
I realized some days back that I get too aggressive when I talk about topics that I am passionate about. And I want to blabber a whole big deluge on information onto anyone who is listening.. Cant help it.. Sometimes people just have not been given that kind of information. So its difficult to just stop and prioritize what message you want the person to get, instead of the message just getting lost in the humongous amounts of blabber.
Its quite a difficult challenge for sure.. Thats why a lot of the very passionate activists end up getting a bad name. We all have that passion, but not everyone understands our point of view. So we have to stop and think as the other person and then give them more than one reason to agree with our thinking.. phew..
Oh yeah, If you do encounter me in one of the information explosion modes, wait for a few minutes.. I will be back to normal and logical speaking in a few .:):)
Thats one thing we both have, hubbs also has information explosions in his head and only some of it gets out, when I get the explosion, most of it gets out, but I get too hyper in the process. In both cases, I think the main point does not always get across!
My passions..
Please dont buy or breed pets, while shelter pets die. 6-8 million pets are euthanized each year. Thats more than 20,000 per day!
Be kind, whether it is food or anything that you use, look for things that have not caused pain and suffering to anyone in the process of getting to you.
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
Analogies
Its like I am learning to swim in a pool and am scared of water, and she is my trainer, but she is always on the pool side, never inside the pool. If she cannot even extend her hand a bit to help me and get a tiny bit of the water splashed on her in the process, then I dont know if she will ever be able to understand. It also indicates too much indifference I would think..
Do counselors and other doctors like surgeons eventually exhaust their supply of understanding, sympathy and empathy.. ? because of their constant exposure to so much pain every day every hour.. and hence the indifference?
Monday, January 24, 2011
A World apart!
Decisions decisions
Will think about that a couple more weeks down the line. Gotta get my PCP appointment done and out of the way.. then we will have some holistic Yoga sessions... Ooommmmmm.. :)
Oh well, the breathing exercises do help to calm you down. Regular breathing exercises also help with the allergies. At least they do help me. Otherwise the sinus congestion and headaches are just bad!
The irony of the situation is, mom taught me all the exercises and mom and sis were doing it then and would badger me into doing it. Now they have all become lazy about it and I keep telling them to pick it up! :D
Sunday, January 23, 2011
Taking a weekend off!
No not really any big plans like normal people. No big parties.. no long drives:)
Plans for me are just simple things like being able to go for a drive and increase the radius by a couple of blocks, or be able to go to the grocery store and get something, or be able to walk chewie more than 2 blocks, or be able to have people over. All the things that you never ever think about because they are just a natural schedule, become a big thing for me to handle.
So until we can figure out whats causing all the crazy anxiety.. its small steps to get used to each and every small thing.. small steps to get back to a semblance of a normal life.
Its so difficult to take the weekend off and do nothing, because obviously I do nothing most of the other days as well. But what I now know about myself is that The person who is the hardest on me, is myself. I apparently expect too much out of myself. I better give myself a break. As breaks are quite refreshing.
Money, money, money
That is probably a big reason why I married a Marwari.:):) He takes care of the numbers!
Where the numbers are coming from, where they are headed, where to save, what to manage..
People defining you by how much you get home, relatives and friends envy or pity, fights, yours and mine..
the world just keeps revolving around it..
Its understandable in a way, because a lot of us come from a background of hard work, limited spending and limited privileges. But when it becomes an obsession, to get more and more, its just not right.
I think i have a phobia of this obsession. I have seen too many obsessed people who cannot think logically and prioritize the important things..
There is so much more to life and happiness..
Friday, January 21, 2011
Its that day of the week again!
http://hobbyandmore.blogspot.com/p/recipe-index_21.html
Chewie is sleeping away beside me. I can hear his calm and regular breathing. He is such a cuddle bug. His hair is growing away to fluffdom and he needs a good brushing this week to remove the tangles!
What next.. make facebook pages for the blogs.. I think I am gonna get the wrist pain again. I need to find a good office chair( the one without wheels) and sit in the home office on the ergonomic keyboard..
I like it when hubbs gets in touch and responds almost immediately. of course dont like it, if there are any delays in meetings, elevators and people not letting him go! He is my safe person after all!
Thursday, January 20, 2011
6 pm on a thursday
Reading up. writing on all 3 of my blogs, thinking of things to write, thinking of things to bake. and so on.
Its a grey day again today.. who am I kidding.. Seattle has more than 300 grey and or rainy days! bleh.
Listening to Jayne Anne Krentz- Truth or Dare today. and baking some russet potatoes..
Walked chewie in the cold and now my balance is off.. another bleh.. these random changes in weather just dont gel well with my sinuses. Time to move to Alaska or CA with mostly the same temperatures all year round!
I tried to watch Idol yesterday. but my nerves are too edgy to deal with the really bad singers.. I'll wait till they have the final good ones...
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Maybe Sun does matter!
Yesterday was a horridly grey day after a number of grey and rainy days.. And I was ready to snap at anything. One of those days when you get irritated or frustrated at just about anything and want to break something!:)
I remember once trying to bread an old chipped plate by throwing it in the garbage bin. Yeah coz who will clean up the mess if i throw on the floor:D. It dint break. I tried 3 times. Then I gave up, and my irritation had disappeared by then!
Today, I woke up in a surly mood because my sleep was disturbed. But the sun is shining now and the mood is slowly getting better!
Why is it a good day. Coz I got some extra hugs from hubbs in the morning... or coz its sunny.. either way.. lets hope it stays this way!
Gotta make a blueberry orange Bread today... I had some wrist pain yesterday, probably coz of too much typing on the laptop.. :) trying to rest it today .. lets see..
Monday, January 17, 2011
Another week another session!
I started working on the new blog this weekend. Most ideas I get, either require a lot of work out of my comfort zone, or I lose the passion behind the idea really quickly. Lets see how long this one continues. The new blog is http://find-me-a-happy-pet.blogspot.com/ . It is currently a collection of points to go through before adopting a pet, points to help you choose the right pet and then prepare your home and family for the care and a lovely life together!
Now heading to another session with the counselor, who has some weird belief that something happened to me when I was an infant or still in the womb.. hmm.. maybe i should get a different one.. i dont understand psychology anyway. Another thing I dont like about her is how she keeps trying to associate my progress with what I do in the sessions for every small thing. I think thats the problem with psychoanalysis. They want you to stick to them for years to introspect and alter your personality....
Friday, January 14, 2011
TGIF!
Yay!
Our nanny quit, so we found a new one. I dont even know if it is a good idea. It takes so much time to just get used to another presence in the house and that too someone you dont really know.
Though in the nanny quest, we did find some people who just had this calm and non judgmental presence. Its nice to know that there are people I can be comfortable with out there.
Random thought moment.....
For anyone using "humans are omnivores" argument to completely ignore the ethical implications of eating factory farmed meat. Think of this. Humans are quite the sexually active living beings too, but that does not mean we can use 2 year old sex slaves to satiate that need. Get the point!
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Pet finder!
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Snow here and gone..
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
An old friend and a thick headed brother!
Monday, January 10, 2011
uggh day!
Sunday, January 09, 2011
Keep facing the past or move forward and forget about it
Friday, January 07, 2011
And the struggle begins again
Sunday, January 02, 2011
Green Tea, GABA and nannies
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Conversations with hubbs 12/29
Friday, August 27, 2010
Veganism
Fur..
Heather Mills McCartney has issued a consumer alert about several top fashion brands whose fur garments may be made of dog and cat fur. At a news conference inside the New York Fashion Week tents, Mills McCartney—wife of former Beatle Sir Paul—screened a graphic video of animals in China being skinned alive for their pelts and unveiled her new PETA ad campaign, “If You Wouldn’t Wear Your Dog, Please Don’t Wear Any Fur.”
Tommy Hilfiger, DKNY, and Sean John manufacture fur or fur-trimmed garments in China, whose fur industry has just eclipsed all other countries combined to become the world’s leading supplier of fur to the United States. Millions of foxes, raccoons, minks, rabbits—and, yes, dogs and cats—are killed in China in ways that would shock unsuspecting consumers because there is not a single animal protection law in the country.
“Consumers who find themselves favoring fur because it’s cheap are in for a shock when they find out that it’s at the expense of animals who are literally skinned alive,” says McCartney. “Buying anything with fur supports one of the most gruesome industries on the planet.”
A year-long undercover investigation concluded earlier this year captured video footage of fur farmers in China swinging raccoons and foxes by their hind legs and smashing their heads into the ground—breaking the animals’ necks or backs but leaving them completely conscious, panting and blinking as they are skinned alive.
Raw fur pelts from China often move through international auctions where their origins can be mislabeled as other types of fur. Dog and cat fur is indistinguishable from that of other animals—only a DNA test can reveal its real source—so the best solution is to avoid wearing any fur.
Please, please just do not buy anything made of Fur. We dont need such cruel embellishments to look good!
Monday, August 09, 2010
Vegan Resources/Factsheets/Essays/Blogs (Nutrition & Ethics)
VITAMIN B12:
* "B12 and the Vegan Diet: All You Need To Know About Vitamin B12 in Vegetarian and Vegan Diets" by Dr Justine Butler:
http://www.vegetarian.org.
* "Vitamin B12: Are you getting it?"
http://www.veganhealth.org
* "The Vitamin B12 Issue" by Dr Gina Shaw:
http://www.living-foods.co
* "Vitamin B12 Importance" by Dr Gabriel Cousens:
http://www.living-foods.co
* "What every vegan should know about vitamin B12" by Stephen Walsh Ph.D:
http://www.vegansociety.co
PROTEIN:
* "The Protein Myth: Why vegetarian and vegan diets contain all the protein that you need" by Amanda Woodvine, BSc Nutrition:
http://www.vegetarian.org.
* "Vegan Protein Sources" by Thomas Stearns Lee:
http://www.naturodoc.com/l
* "Protein in the Vegan Diet" by Reed Mangels:
http://www.vrg.org/nutriti
* "Protein"
http://www.vegansociety.co
* "Quinoa: A Great Vegetarian Protein Source":
http://www.vegathletic.com
* "The Queen of Protein, Quinoa!"
http://vegancampus.com/200
* "Hemp Protein" by Jennifer Walker, BSc (Nutr.):
http://www.alive.com/4490a
IRON:
* "Ironing out the facts: Why plant iron is best" by Dr Justine Butler:
http://www.vegetarian.org.
* "Iron in the Vegan Diet" by Reed Mangels:
http://www.vrg.org/nutriti
* "Iron"
http://www.vegansociety.co
CALCIUM:
* "Boning up on Calcium! Why Plant Calcium is Best" by Dr Justine Butler:
http://www.vegetarian.org.
* "Calcium":
http://www.vegansociety.co
* "Are you getting too much calcium?" by Micki Misiaszek, RD, LDN:
http://www.aakp.org/aakp-l
* "Health risks from excessive calcium" by the National Institute of Health:
http://ods.od.nih.gov/fact
VEGAN ETHICS / ANIMAL RIGHTS / ENVIRONMENT:
* Vegan Ethics (various booklets)
http://www.veganoutreach.o
* Abolitionist Approach (pamphlet)
http://www.abolitionistapp
* "The Dark Side of Dairy"
http://milkmyths.org.uk/
* "Environmental Degradation"
http://www.veganoutreach.o
* "Greenhouse Emissions and exacerbated Climate Change"
http://www.veganoutreach.o
* "UN urges global move to meat and dairy-free diet"
http://www.guardian.co.uk/
* "Expanding Our Compassion Footprint: Minding Animals As We Redecorate Nature" by Marc Bekoff:
http://www.psychologytoday
* "Why 'Good Welfare' Isn't 'Good Enough': Minding Animals and Increasing Our Compassionate Footprint" by Marc Bekoff:
http://www.animalrightsafr
* "The Problem of the 'Welfarist' Approach: The 'humane' myth of effectively regulating ongoing abuse"
http://humanemyth.org/
* "Minding the Animals: Ethology and the Obsolescence of Left Humanism" by Dr Steve Best:
http://www.inclusivedemocr
* "Revolutionary Environmentalism: An Emerging New Struggle for Total Liberation" by Dr Steve Best:
http://www.drstevebest.org
* "The Misleading Language of Species-ism" by Joan Dunayer (intro by David Catherine):
http://www.facebook.com/no
* "First Strike: The Connection Between Animal Cruelty and Human Violence"
http://www.hsus.org/hsus_f
* "Empathy is What Really Sets Vegetarians Apart (at least Neurologically Speaking)" by Daniel R. Hawes:
http://www.psychologytoday
* "Rational Ignorance and Rational Irrationality" by Dan Cudahy
http://unpopularveganessay
GENERAL:
* "The Comparative Anatomy of Eating" by Milton R. Mills (MD):
http://www.earthsave.ca/fi
* "A-Z Of Hidden Nasties! Alphabetical Glossary of Animal Substances" by Juliet Gellatley, Director of VVF and Laura Scott, MSc Nutrition:
http://www.vegetarian.org.
* "The Safety of Soya" by Dr Justine Butler, VVF Senior Health Campaigner:
http://www.vegetarian.org.
* Vegan Factsheets (various):
http://www.vegetarian.org.
BLOG-SITES FOR VEGAN / ANIMAL RIGHTS :
* "Unpopular Vegan Essays" by Dan Cudahy:
http://unpopularveganessay
* "Abolitionist Animal Rights" by James Crump:
http://abolitionistanimalr
* "Animal Rights: The Abolitionist Approach" by Gary Francione:
http://www.abolitionistapp
* "On Human-Nonhuman Relations: A Sociological Exploration of Speciesism" by Roger Yates:
http://human-nonhuman.blog
* "My Face Is on Fire: Abolitionist vegan education, animal rights issues and the misrepresentation of veganism in pop culture or mainstream media":
http://my-face-is-on-fire.
* "Thomas Paine's Corner: Comforting the afflicted and afflicting the comfortable" (various authors/editors):
http://thomaspainescorner.
* "Vegetarianism, Environmentalism, Animal Rights, and Social Theory" by Dr Steve Best:
http://www.drstevebest.org
* "The Earth Blog: Giving The Earth A Future " by Keith Farnish:
http://earth-blog.bravejou
* "The Permavegan: A conversation at the intersection of plant-based nutrition, permaculture, and vegan ethics" by Jonathan Maxson:
http://permavegan.blogspot
ONLINE DOCUMENTARIES/VIDEOS:
* "Earthlings" (3 trailers, plus full version)
http://www.earthlings.com/
* "Meet Your Meat"
http://www.goveg.com/facto
* "The Milk Documentary"
http://www.milkdocumentary
* "Dr. Jay Gordon: No one needs meat for health"
http://www.youtube.com/wat
* The Witness" (trailer excerpt)
http://www.facebook.com/vi
* "The Witness" (full version)
http://www.tribeofheart.or
Saturday, May 01, 2010
Ethical Omnivore!
- We wake up, brush our teeth. -That toothpaste and the ingredients were tested on animals.
- Have a bath..- That soap, facial cleanser, shampoo, conditioner, shower gel were tested on some poor rabbits.
- Get ready, wear some nice clothes, shoes - The wool, fur, silk came from animals who lead a tortured life. That leather shoe could be that dog, your neighbor lost as a kid, which ended up in china.. for its meat and skin and any possible use that can be made out of it.
- Fix hair..do some makeup/shave..- The sprays, mousse, foam, cosmetics were all tested on animals.. There are labs out there, with tons of animals, who have to live a horrid life of getting things injected in their body, eyes, ears and more, just so we can get that new lipstick from this seasons new collection.
- Cook up some breakfast..some nice eggs and bread with some hot tea..- The eggs come from factory farmed hens and the milk from cows who have udders 5 times the size of what they actually should be. With that much milk in their udders, they are in constant pain and have constant infections and hence all the hormones and antibiotics which end up in our system.
- Get to office, get coffee and eat and drink meat, cheese, butter and milk and other combinations of the same. - All factory farmed.
- Get home, cook dinner, clean the kitchen, do the dishes or the laundry..- The household cleaners, dish soap, laundry detergent.. and their ingredients were all tested on animals and still are.. for every new one that comes out.
- Watch something for entertainment like some animals in a circus, animal fights etc( oh yes, the supreme court thinks that dog fight videos are not cruel. They overturned a ban on those videos just last week) Animals in circuses have the worst life ever. Always chained and tortured to perform for our entertainment.
- Eat some desserts, ice creams, and head to bed..- all the creamy cakes, the frosting, cream, butter, eggs, milk.. all factory farmed. We consume so much dairy in a day.. ever think , out of the milk a cow produces..how much does its calf get?
Do change the meat, milk, eggs, cheese to these humane brands and those happy animals will send a big thanks to you. There is hardly a difference in the prices and some of the brands are readily available in the regular grocery store. The big difference is that these are from an animal who had a decently happy life till its eventual slaughter.
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Why foster!
- The cuddly little scared thing waiting in some kennel at a shelter somewhere will get a chance to live in a warm home and a chance at adoption.
- The little thing who is scheduled to get that injection which will suck the life out of him, will get another chance to find someone who he can call home
- The scared and confused thing will be calmer and happier, and will give you and everyone he meets, all the love back and hence be more adoptable than the scared and snappy one he is at the shelter